Monday, May 18, 2015

MARRIAGE TALK. MANAGING EMOTIONS.

One of the greatest cause of conflicts in Marriage is mismanagement of Emotions, or sometimes, misuse of emotions.
So many marraiges are unhealthy owing to lack of wisdom and common sense in managing emotions, which leds to hurts, offences, verbal and physical abuse of spouse and kids, infidelity and most times, withdrawal of emotions in pretense of peace!

Until you learn how to manage emotions rightly, you can never have a healthy relationship with your spouse and kids!

Here are some facts you must learn about emotions!

* Man was created with too many emotions.
* God Himself is an Emotional being!
* Emotions are neither good nor bad! Every emotion can be used rightly or wrongly! Lol.
* Hate is good when used positively; example; God hates Sin but He loves Sinners!
God does not Hate both the Sin and the Sinner!
So, hate a persons habit but love the person!
* Mismanagement of Emotion is the greatest source of stress in marriage and relationships!
* Relating with a person who cannot manage his/her emotions is like having a Marriage with a Mad Man! Very unpredictable!

So, how do you manage emotions?

(Watch out for Part 2)

If you reside in Uturu,
join me at
CPM UTURU Branch, off Ukwunwangwu market;
this Monday 18th May 2015,
by 5pm
for ISSUES OF THE HEART:
Topic: Managing Emotions in Relationships.
I'll be glad to see you in that meeting!
Or order for the CD @ bsn4christ@yahoo.com.
08134493021:
God bless you.

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